Do attractive men get hit on as much as we think they do? How do you react to compliments?
- I've had a couple of friends of mine be completely dumbfounded at how just how oblivious to these things that I am. I mean I notice sometimes when a woman is flirting with me, but most of the time, I figure they're just enjoying our conversation, pool game, whatever, and not sending signals that I should be trying to get in their pants. I have to have someone tell me outright that they're interested or I'm not gonna get it. And then there's the times that I know, but I'm not in the least(조금도 않다, =not at all) bit interested in trying. There's a couple of girls that have recently started frequenting the bar that I play pool at. I'm easily old enough to be their father and they're openly flirting and I'm just like "hey look, the table just opened up, I'm going to play"
- I’m not exactly a great looking guy but on a few occasions I’ve been complimented or sexually harassed by women but moreso by gay men. When a complete stranger snuck a kiss onto me while I was walking out of a bar, that’s when I thought “Is this what some women have to go through, but way more often?” That’s when I realized, if I didn’t appreciate getting kissed by a single strange man, I’m sure many women don’t appreciate getting hit on by several strangers every day.
- Can confirm... I sometimes work in the Castro of San Francisco... been catcalled on sidewalk and been shot pickup lines... It’s flattering but guys can be persistent... it gets awkward real fast
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